There are bodies that we look at too much.
Bodies that are being commented on.
Bodies that are constantly being asked to do more.
And then there's yours.
The one who carried you here.
He who has lived through the seasons, the trials, the silences, the rebirths.
A body that never ceased to be worthy of love, even when the world made you believe otherwise.
This article is a gentle invitation.
To lay down the weight of others' gaze.
To get back to you.
To honor you as you are, today.
The opinions of others: a burden we don't have to bear.
Very early on, many women learn that their bodies need to be corrected, justified, and explained.
Too much of this. Not enough of that. Too visible. Too present.
But this external perspective is not the truth.
It is often a reflection of norms, projections, fears… that do not belong to you.
Freeing oneself from the gaze of others is not the same as becoming indifferent.
It means ceasing to define oneself through him.
Your body has nothing to prove
Your body is not a problem to be solved.
It is not a construction site.
It is not a goal to be achieved.
He is :
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a place to live
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a refuge
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a memory
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a silent force
Whether you have curves, a soft tummy, full thighs, a generous bust, or a body that doesn't fit into any category…
Your value doesn't change by a gram.
Accepting yourself does not mean giving up
There is a very widespread misconception:
“ To accept oneself is to abandon all evolution. ”
That's wrong.
Accepting yourself means changing your starting point.
It's no longer "I have to become someone else",
but :
“ I already deserve respect, love, and kindness. ”
From that point on, everything becomes more accurate.
More peaceful.
More aligned.
Taking care of oneself without correcting oneself
Taking care of yourself should never be a disguised punishment.
Nor an attempt to disappear.
Nor is it a struggle against one's own reflection.
Taking care of yourself means:
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choose moments of calm
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to afford comfort
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listen to his needs
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speak to each other with kindness
Even and especially when one does not conform to the standards.
The body as an ally, not as an enemy
Your body is speaking to you.
Sometimes gently.
Sometimes stronger.
He's not asking you to be different.
He is asking you to listen to him.
When you stop judging him,
He often stops tensing up.
For you, who still doubts
If you feel today:
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too noticeable
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too different
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not “properly”
Know this:
You are already complete.
You don't need to correct anything to deserve:
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love
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respect
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peace
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beauty
Loving each other unconditionally is not a goal to be achieved.
It's a path.
Sometimes slow.
Sometimes fragile.
But every step counts.
And every time you choose gentleness over criticism, you repair something very old.
🤎For you
You are not "in spite of" your body.
You are with him.
And that's enough.
Hazellia - Enhance your femininity from the inside out 🍃
